Your Words Matter: How to Talk to Someone With Alzheimer's
All it takes is a few kind words to connect with people affected by Alzheimer's disease. Your words strike a chord and jog the memories of these individuals. Your communication encourages their own, giving them a voice and a sense of self.
This guide teaches you how to talk to someone with Alzheimer's. Use it to reach a loved one or to create a stronger, positive impact on the person you care for.
Get to Know the Person and the Disease
There is no set way that Alzheimer's affects people. The scientific and medical community has defined stages. But, every patient and their experiences are different as the disease progresses.
From the moment of their diagnosis, take the time to understand them by:
Learning about Alzheimer's and dementia, its timeline, and what to expect
Understanding their mannerisms and grasp on communication
You're taking this time to build a communication foundation. The person is still very much engaged and cognitive in the early stages. So, use these fleeting moments to connect so you can continue doing so in the later stages.
Adapt to the Conversations
There are many obstacles and barriers to communication when talking to someone with dementia. You will need to change how you communicate if you want to get through to them effectively.
Seek mindfulness in the words you choose and body language you convey.
Talk like an adult, not slowing and overly simplifying your words
Avoid talking too loud, using slang, and vague descriptions
Be very specific and direct with what you're asking
Catch and keep attention by using their name and showing engagement. Eye contact, being at their level, and exhibiting patience is quite helpful.
You aren't "babying" them during conversations. But, you also aren't talking fast like you've got a ton of gossip to share. You'll adapt to the conversations and find a middle area they'll understand and follow.
Explore Nonverbal Communication
The later stages of Alzheimer's can see the person borderline mute. They've lost most of their cognitive ability and likely won't actively engage. However, there are still channels of communication you can have with them.
Read nonverbal cues like their facial reaction and body language
Point and use visuals to convey ideas and emotions
Respect their personal space and how they're positioning
Sometimes saying nothing is louder than saying something. They may simply need your company and companionship. As long as you're there, you're providing a way to communicate and that's what's important.
Never Stop Trying to Understand How to Talk to Someone with Alzheimer's
It's a frustrating experience if you don't know how to talk to someone with Alzheimer's. You'll feel as if nothing is getting through to them.
Don't give up. They need you.
One of the strategies from this post is bound to resonate with the person. And, so will those tips you find while learning and adapting to their lifestyle. This forges the bond and relationship that will improve their quality of life.
How else can you help someone experiencing the effects of dementia? Get in touch. Our experienced health aides are here to care for your loved one with Alzheimer's.
